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My name is Sadie, pronounced Say-dee. Please don't make me a Sad-dee. »top

2. What sort of session do you enjoy, or “What can I expect?”

Lots of smiling, a sardonic sense of humor, a sharp mind, gentle affection, merciless seduction, tempting teases… I am very creative and open-minded, nurturing & assertive, sweet & sophisticated, and bold. I love and honor the work that I do, and our time is important to me. Respectful companions will find a deliciously wicked mind, a willingness to please, an inspiring muse, and a soothing initiator—playful and brazen. If you are of a shy and nervous temperament, I will quickly put you at ease and relieve any pressure you may feel. If you are calm and self-assured, I will banter and enjoy learning what you bring to the table. I very much enjoy the role of teacher and guide, though I also appreciate people who know what they want and how to kindly convey it. I strive to provide sartorial attention based on your interests and pleasures—and, of course, to have fun! I consider myself a Pleasure Activist, and I take this very seriously (though not without humor and delight) to help open and uncover the pleasure each of us has unique access to and to share my interests and insights on pleasure with others. I truly think that helping people experience pleasure and connection makes the world a better place.

• I will be deliciously clean and possibly scented with jasmine or another light essential floral fragrance. Please specify if you have scent allergies or do not like deodorant and I will happily accommodate you.
• Please let me know if you have any preferences as to my attire. I love dressing up and have a wardrobe including romantic, vintage, provocative, elegant, professional, and fetish styles.
• I take great pride in my work and in the therapeutic nature of my sensual adventures. I endeavor to make every encounter memorable and completely satisfying for everyone involved.
• I provide a relaxed experience that flows easily, so rest assured that your time will be well and fully used. My location sometimes prevents me from extending appointments at the last minute, and thus the pre-negotiated time length must be respected.
• I am very experienced with fetish and fantasy play, but I am not a submissive. Please inquire as to whether our fetish interests match.

On the whole, you can expect a safe, comfortable, scintillating experience with a stunning, passionate woman who will tease you, lead you, and leave you deliciously devastated. In the words of one of my friends:

“The honor and pleasure is entirely mine. Even now, I'm tingling all over! I loved every minute of our li'l get together. I'm very happy you enjoyed it too.”
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3. Your place or mine?

I welcome you to visit me in my glamorous and extensively equipped location in the Mission District of San Francisco. Role-play enthusiasts will delight in the options for creativity this place has to offer, and the Budoir is luxuriously appointed. Discretion is expected at all times in and near my space. Parking is not easy (give yourself some extra time), but BART is very nearby. If you feel more comfortable at home or in your hotel, I would be happy to visit you within San Francisco proper. Addresses at the outskirts of the city may require an additional transportation stipend. »top

4. Is there anything I can do to make our time more enjoyable? What constitutes good etiquette?

Oh my, yes! My foremost concerns—beyond fun and safety—are good hygiene, good attitude, and respect. These can be demonstrated as follows:

• Via correspondence: You act and speak with discretion. Anything else is impolite and I will not tolerate rudeness. You know that your initial introduction establishes both interest and trust—and believe me, you want me to trust that I'm interested. This means no lewd conversation, unrequested photos, or intimate or indelicate questions. You are patient and understand that I have a busy and very full life.
• In person: My favorite is when you come to the door fairly freshly showered (or prepared to take one as part of your session time), with fresh breath and no scent. You are friendly and respectful, and you are not afraid to ask polite questions if unsure about something. You spend our time together enthusiastically and are appreciative (though not obsessive) of anything about our time or myself, which pleases you. You do not try to persuade me to do anything that has no interest for me (see the next answer regarding boundaries and limits) but are willing to relax and enjoy all that I have to offer. Though I am no shrinking violet, you understand that I prefer people to introduce themselves with slow gentleness; rough language, looks, or hands will not be endured. »top

5. I am curious about your boundaries and limits.

I am famously and thoroughly safe and dedicated to my boundaries. I believe strongly in community, and I see it as a community service to protect those I spend time with as well as myself from harm or discomfort. This means that I require all bases to be covered. You will enjoy the time we spend together so much more if I feel safe, comfortable, happy, and respected. I feel this way when my boundaries are not questioned and any limits that may arise during our time are respected without hesitation. »top

6. How shall I contact you? —Any requirements?

Make sure to check my notes on tributes and my schedule on the Availability page and then please fill out my contact form on the Contact page. Any questions not answered in my FAQ or any particular requests should be addressed in the Notes section of the Contact form. Vulgar or disrespectful language will not be acknowledged. I screen all of my callers, so please be prepared with a reference. I require at least one day's previous notice—please don't ask for same-day appointments. Do let me know how you heard of me. When the time comes to call me, make sure to unblock your phone number—I do not pick up for blocked calls. Please be patient, for when my schedule is very full, it may take a few days to me to reply. »top

7. I have never seen anyone like you before. How do I provide a reference?

I may be able to use an employer confirmation as a reference. Please ask about this in the Notes section of the Contact form when you contact me. »top

8. What are your confirmation and cancellation policies?

Confirmation will be made the day before the appointment, by telephone. Cancellations with less than 24 hours' notice require half of the original tribute to reschedule. Time is my most precious resource—I appreciate your respect. »top

9. Your piercings and hair intrigue me. Do they carry any special significance?

My adornments are expressions of my personal aesthetic, and I have put much thought and consideration into each piece. My piercings are a nod to ancient cultures, an expression of my personal spirituality, and a reflection of my feelings about art and beauty. My hair often reflects my strong desire for variety and my artistic creativity, with two or more colors elegantly blended or bold, classic, or innovative cuts and styles. I have heard from people that I've developed beautiful long-term relationships and have seen me over the course of a number of years how exciting it is for them, as they're never quite sure what my hair will look like when I open the door! As a Francophile and as someone who really appreciates the European beauty aesthetic, I prefer my pits and bits au natural—often, the carpet, drapes, and doilies are coordinated! My tattoos are small and symbolic. I enjoy pedicures immensely and adore glossy paint on my toes. I'm sure you'll agree that all of my accessories are elegant, unique, and tasteful. If for some reason it is necessary for me to appear sans facial piercings, please let me know about your request in your first correspondence. »top

10. Are there other women you recommend? Do you work with other women or men?

Yes. I am very lucky to have a fabulous network of friends and colleagues who each strive for excellence while respecting their own personality and style. If you are looking for something a little different than what I normally offer, I highly recommend any of the wonderful people on my links page. If you are interested in seeing both a friend and myself at the same time, you won't be disappointed, I adore sharing with my beautiful friends and getting really creative. Please inquire about the availability of my friends when you initially contact me. »top

“Doubles with Sadie and Miss Chloe...Priceless!”
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11. What is appropriate regarding tips or gifts?

Tips and gifts are never expected or requested, though always deeply appreciated. There are a few special situations where you may feel a tip to be appropriate; if you are late, require extensive or specific preparation, require time outside the hours of 11am–10pm, or indulge in prolific email or phone exchange. If you feel compelled to bring a gift, please check my Wishlist or inquire as to my tastes. Alcohol is not appropriate given my dietary restrictions. »top

12. Do you consider barter or exchange offers for session time?

No, I am most interested in people who are very comfortable and excited with our exchange- it turns me on to know that my friends can easily afford my companionship and that my time will be respected. However, to reflect current salary disparities, I do offer adjusted tributes for single women, other artists and industry professionals. Please make a note on my contact form to see if you qualify. »top

13. Do you like to travel? Could we travel together, or will you come and visit me?

I'd love to! I adore traveling, and have been flying internationally since I was two years old. Assuming we already know each other and have established good chemistry, please tell me all about your ideas for trips we could take and ask about the tributes for travel. I will consider visiting you with the understanding that all of my travel expenses (transportation, food, and lodging) are provided for. I do have a very full life, so I am often not available for requests to leave San Francisco on short notice. Information about my travel schedule can be found on the Availability page—see if I will be visiting your town soon. »top

14. You look familiar, is it possible I've seen you in print or on film?

Yes, it's quite possible.

Maybe you've seen me in Club, Leg Show, Nugget, On Our Backs, or in The Mammoth Book of Erotic Women. My modeling work has been featured in several magazines, two books of fetish photography, a number of websites, and several videos and films. Thank you for noticing! »top